I am particularly zeroing in on this detail because I have attended weddings myself where wedding singers take the stage. I am not even kidding. Sometimes you get someone soooo good, and yet, so good they are, they sing their hearts out in the church during the most solemn parts that the attendees ask themselves, “who is that??” and their eyes wander around looking for the voice.
I’d love someone to sing like that at my wedding! –said no bride ever.
Choirs and singers should only complement the solemnity and moments in any wedding, at least that’s how I see it. I want all eyes on the couple, exchanging their vows; or the priest, giving his sermon to the couple. The choice of songs also adds to the overall feel of the ceremony—whether it’s fun, romantic, light-hearted. It really depends on the couple.
In the end, you do not want singers who take the attention from the main stars of the show—the couple, exchanging marital promises. It is not a place for them to showcase their given talent to reach the highest of notes—no. Places to do that are called CONCERTS, not weddings.
I’ve heard of Anima for quite a while, watched their performances on YouTube and liked how they perform immediately. They’re not cheap, mind you, so I had to look for alternatives. Perhaps someone else or some upcoming bands who can deliver the same “good but not scene stealing” kind of performance. Alas, I’ve searched far and wide but no one ever came close. Some came close but were much more expensive. Some came out cheaper but there wasn’t that “this is it” feeling when I would talk to them, or listen to their performances. Everyone was just okay, can do better. I hated that phase.
It was at least 2 months before I finally paid my down payment to Roger Sigwa, the contact person for Anima Choir and Strings. I admit, some part of me is still torn, because a little more and I could have a band sing at the reception too—but I don’t want a band at the church!
Anyway, I think I will get over it now that the planning is winding down and I’m at a “relaxed” stage.